Candles have always been associated with romance. The only thing better than enjoying candlelight when relaxing alone is enjoying it with that special someone. There is something so alluring about the soft flickering light, as if this is the way that you are meant to see each other. Using candles to provide deep comfort and tranquil warmth is the key to bonding, whether your relationship is new and fresh or old and comfortable. Most romance experts suggest using white, softly scented candles, though most soft colors work just as well.